1 year ago.....

1 year ago, the weather was getting colder.
1 year ago, I had stopped eating.
1 year ago, I smiled everyday...but it was always fake.
1 year ago, I felt my world falling apart.

Sometimes it feels like yesterday, but more often than not, it feels like a year ago.  
They say you never forget your 30th birthday, and they're right.  This is the year I will never forget.  My life is forever changed.  I never thought I'd be the girl who was getting divorced and alone.  I never thought I'd be the girl who was fighting to save her house and figuring out how to pay every bill on her own.  I never thought I'd lose the friends I did and meet the ones I love now.  I never thought my grandmother would die, and my family would grow stronger and more loving than ever before.  I never...

But that's what this year brought.  God always has a way of making you do your "nevers" (a smart and beautifully tall friend told me that once).  I've been stronger, and weaker, than I ever thought I was.  I have relied on my parents more and confided in them like best friends.  I have shared my feelings openly when before I just smiled on the surface.  I've gone to therapy, and gained a renewed, stronger, and powerful relationship with God.  He and I have had some great times together, but this year was my test.  I'm sure not the first, and definitely not the last.  But the first where I gave it all to him.  The first test where I relied on His strength and His guidance and not my own.  It was time to be patient.  It was time to give Him control.

In October, with physical and mental strength that I didn't know I had, I competed the Volkslauf competition in my town.  It is a 5k with about 2.5 miles of running through rough, rocky, dusty trails and about 20 or so INSANELY difficult Marine Corps style obstacles.  It was no doubt the most physically trying, mentally draining, and hysterically fun day I've ever spent waist deep in the mud with friends.  It was the hardest task to complete, but I did it.  Looking back, I'm amazed I made it through every time.  When describing the course and what emotions I was going through at every moment to my amazing therapist, she was in awe of what toll it took on both my body and my mind.  She saw it (as I did) as a metaphor for my life this past year.  A lot of tough, uphill climbs, combined with deep, muddy pits full of thick sludge.  She suggested I journal about it.  She says it helps. I am a firm believer in ANYTHING that helps these days.  I'm not a paper and pen type of girl (who is these days?) so I thought, "Hey, start a blog!? No one will read it.  No one will care.  But even if one person does, and it matters to them....I've done something great."  It feels amazing just getting my thoughts down where I can read them.

So, if you choose to follow my blog...I can't promise it'll always be happy and cheerful.  I can't promise that I'll never be sad.  But I can promise that I will always be honest and sincere.  This is my life.  Join me...for the uphills, the downhills, the 8ft walls, the mudpits, and the finish line.....I may not be creative, I may not be perfect...but I know...I'm Lucky.